Cognitive Science 301
Applied Cognitive Science and
Education
Fall 2006

Social Ability
Building and sustaining human relationships
(social mastery) may be greatly influenced by and may greatly affect
self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-image.
Social challenges that influence schoolchildren
- Conformity, inner vs. outer-directedness,
the dilemma of autonomy from and dependence on parents
- "The ability of some of these relatively
autonomous children to maintain their individuality without experiencing
retribution from their peers must be one of the more laudable early-life
accomplishments." (p 263)
Major Themes of Social Development
- Formation of friendships
- initially involves sharing material things
and participation in similar activities
- involves a growing understanding of how
personal actions can affect a friend's state of mind and feelings
- ability to see things from another's point
of view
- depends on an increasing independence from
"adult participation in friendships"
- an increasing tendency to form close
friendships with a few peers
- Selman's 5 levels of development (based on
clinical experience and previous research, pp 265-266)
- Level 0: egocentric or undifferentiated
perspectives (ages 3 to 7)
- Friendship is "playmateship". (p 265)
- Level 1: subjective or differentiated
perspectives (ages 4 to 9)
- Children begin to understand
that the other person has perspectives that may be the same as or
different compared to their perspectives.
- Level 2: self-reflective or reciprocal
perspectives (ages 6 to 12)
- At this stage individuals can imagine
the other person's perspective and how the other person sees them.
"They become increasingly aware of how their actions and thoughts affect
their evaluations of other people." (p 265)
- This may not involve reciprocity of
actions.
- Level 3: third person or mutual
perspectives (9 to 15)
- Individuals form close relationships,
that are often very possessive.
- Relationships can withstand arguments
and other differences.
- Level 4: societal or in-depth
perspectives (12 to adult)
- Varying degrees of friendship are
possible based on societal, moral and/or personal similarities.
- McGuire and Weisz (1982) studied
"chumships" and found that formation of chumships demands intimacy,
affecting matching, and mutual understanding (8 to 11 years of age).
- Strong social cognitive skills reinforce
these chumships.
- Role of gender differences in the
formation of friendships
- Schofield (1981)
- males: interaction with peer groups
"seems directed toward proving and displaying athletic skill and
physical strength." (p 267)
- females: social interactions
frequently involve discussion of hair, clothing, and personal
appearance
- both groups seek acceptance by peers and
close relationships
- The understanding of others
- Social behavior is in large part dependent
on understanding and interpreting the actions of other people.
- Children/people become increasingly
selective and cognizant of analyzing others (in communicating with them,
joining clubs, cliques, and adopting social behaviors).
- The situationalist view: the
specific situation causes specific behaviors
- The dispositionalist view: the
person's reactions and behavior are determined by their own personal beliefs
that are relatively fixed
- What do you think of the conclusions of
Ross's research based on the Johnny and the Dog story regarding responses from
different aged individuals? (page 268-69) Can these generalizations be
valid?
- Does the situationalist perspective
undergo a rebirth?
- Moral development
- Ethical behavior, fairness, moral
transgression are aspects of moral development.
- Kohlberg's stages of moral development (p
271)
- preconventional: recognize rules of
good/bad, right/wrong and associate them to consequences of their actions
- behavior at this stage considers
avoidance of punishment and obedience
- conventional: the person is aware that
expectations of their family or culture is valuable, regardless of the
consequences. Loyalty
- good behavior "consists of doing your
duty, showing respect for others, and maintaining the social order
because it is important that it be sustained." (p 271)
- postconventional (autonomous or
principled): perception that moral values and principles are valid beyond
those of cultures, groups of people and loyalty to one's group(s)
- "Correct actions are defined in terms
of individual rights and the standards that have been critically
examined and agreed on by a whole society." (p 272)
- The stages go from self-serving behavior
and ending up accepting rationale behind universal ethical principles ("a
form of metacognition")
- Popularity and Unpopularity
- What are the social-cognitive needs to being
popular?
- Categories according to Coie, Dodge,
and Coppotelli 1982: Popular, controversial, neglected, rejected
- inappropriate play behaviors and antisocial
and aggressive acts caused rejection in groups of boys who were studied
- popular boys were engaged in social
conversation and more cooperative play; were good leaders and shared things;
were more physically attractive
- Categories of Asher (1983)
- relevance: Table 8-1. Ability to
"read" a social situation and adapt behavior accordingly
- responsiveness: Table 8-1. Capacity to be
receptive to and reinforce the social initiatives of others
- timing and staging: Table 8-1. Capacity to
pace relationships; knowing what and when to do or say
- indirect approaches: Table 8-1. Awareness
that relationships and interactions are often initiated and sustained by
indirect means
- feedback cues: Table 8-1. Sensitivity to
negative and positive social feedback while relating; self-monitoring; ability
to discern visual and verbal social cues
- resolution of conflict: Table 8-1. Aptitude
for settling disagreement without resorting to violence (verbal or physical)
without aggression
- verbal pragmatics: Table 8-1. Understanding
and effective use of language in social contexts; the selection of words and
vocal tone
- social memory: Table 8-1. recall and use of
prior interactional experience
- social prediction: Table 8-1. Propensity to
foresee the social consequences of one's actions and/or words
- awareness of image: Table 8-1. tendency to
present oneself to peers in a socially acceptable way; they understand what
their peers appreciate and know how to talk, dress, and act
- affective matching: Table 8-1. Ability to
discern and reinforce the current feelings and/or mood of a peer
- recuperative strategies: Table 8-1. Ability
to compensate for social error
- Popularity vs. chumship (friendship): "The
intimacy and altruism described earlier as essential ingredients of chumship
are not as central to popularity." (p 280)
- Table 8-2. Dysfunctions of other
neurodevelopmental constructs and their impact on social cognitive ability
- Attention: may have trouble paying attention
to facial expressions, verbal tone, and the social scene in general
- insatiable social contacts: possibly
egocentric without mutual understanding
- impulsivity may preclude the indirect
approaches suggested above by Asher
- Spatial and temporal-sequential ordering:
- spatial - perhaps have trouble with visual
perception of body language
- temporal-sequential - difficulty perhaps
with sequential reasoning and prediction of consequences of inappropriate
social interactions
- Memory:
- memory for faces, names
- memory for previous social experiences and
what worked and did not
- Language:
- "Conversational skills play a critical role
in the formation and maintenance of relationships." (p 284) - both receptive
and expressive are important
- detect verbal feedback cues
- social interaction requires appropriate
interpretation of verbal social inferences
- "Words and sentences are an essential means
of gaining control of social situations." (p 284)
- "In-group language" may be difficult to
master for individuals with social ability problems
- Selection of appropriate words can
facilitate or inhibit social interactions
- Higher-order cognition:
- individuals with weakness in this area may
have difficulty solving social problems
- social metacognition (constant analysis of
what is happening and how am I doing)
- Production capacities:
- Being a producer, demonstrating a high level
of accomplishment may assist in social capability with others.
- Other influences:
- family and cultural influences set models
for social interactions
- school environments affect social capability
- bodily image: physical attractiveness, acne,
glasses, braces
- self-esteem and self-confidence
- age
- Complications of Social Inability: low
self-esteem, performance anxiety in social situations, reactive depression
- development of self-protective strategies:
withdrawal
- formation of friendships with nonpeers
- reactive aggressive behavior with siblings
as a result of problems with social interactions out of the home
- Assessment:
- Direct observation in a variety of settings
with peers and nonpeers (classroom, playground, after school activities)
- Obtain comprehensive information from the
parents and teachers
- See Figure 8-1. A checklist of social
cognitive functions
- Talk with the individual and explore "the
critical social hot spots" (p 292)
- Management:
- psychological counseling
- social skills groups
- select activities for the child in which she
is likely to succeed.
Main Ideas about Social Ability
- The formation of friendships is one of the
first experiences that the individual will have regarding social interactions
with peers.
- The child goes through many steps developing
from egocentrism to having the capacity to predict others' thoughts and
feelings.
- Ross (1981) discusses the situationalist vs
the dispositionalist perspective in interpreting social interactions.
- Developing through the hypothesized stages
of moral maturation also contributes to strong social ability.
- Popularity and the capability of forming
chumships require different social capabilities.
- Social capability is influenced by all of
the other neurodevelopmental constructs.
- Poor self-esteem and social ability
negatively impact all of the other neurodevelopmental constructs.
Questions About Social Ability
1. According to Levine there are 4 main areas
of social development that are important in a mature, healthy social
ability:
- Formation of friendships
- The understanding of others
- Moral development
- Popularity and unpopularity
Choose one of these and describe what it is,
Levine's reason for including it as a main area of social development, the
importance of this area according to Levine, and possible dysfunctions that
may occur.
2. Comment on the differences between
assessing social ability based on popularity/unpopularity vs. friendships/chumships.
3. Explain how each of the other
neurodevelopmental constructs impacts social cognitive ability.
4. Design a means of assessing social
cognitive ability. What parameters need to be included?